Giving Your Love Relationship Space

Benefits Of Spending Time Away From Your Relationship

Clinging Partner In RomanceAre you worried that your partner likes to have a lot of ‘me time?’ There’s really no need to worry. In fact, spending some time away from your partner can actually be beneficial for your relationship. It balances up togetherness with individuality. It allows you to be yourself, to not always be dependent on your partner and to go on with your life even without the presence of your most cherished one. The following are some reasons why you should find some time completely for yourself.

It makes the love grow stronger

There’s an old adage that goes: Absence makes the heart grow fonder. Countless couples have realised this to be true. If you spend time away from each other, you will learn to appreciate the time you are in each other’s arms a whole lot more.

It gives you time to do things for yourself

When you are always with your partner, you might find yourself in some uncomfortable situations such as answering the call of nature. You might be too embarrassed to do gross things in front of your partner and to be frank, there really is a lot of disconcerting things you ought to do which your partner doesn’t really need to see. This might sound silly or funny to some people, but it helps to keep such things in the dark unless you’re absolutely certain they won’t affect your relationship.

Find new interests

Woman With New Interest

When you get some alone time, you get the opportunity to find new interests or perhaps reignite old ones. Everybody is attracted to a passionate person. This allows you to have something to share with your partner, even if he or she doesn’t share the same passion in what you’re doing. More importantly, it can boost your self-esteem, which can translate to you having more confidence in talking to your partner and interacting with other people.

Avoid petty fights

Being with someone every second of every day can drive you nuts. Yes, this is true even if you love the person very much. You can ignore the time when your partner forgot to wash the dishes, but if he or she does it for a week straight, then you are surely going to have some fight over it. Such petty fights can be easily avoided if you are not together all the time.

These are just a few reasons why you should consider spending some time away with your partner. It’s a great way to keep some mystery alive, reignite attraction, and develop as a person.

Remember Anniversaries

Why Anniversaries Are So Important In A Relationship

Loving Couple Celebrate Anniversary

Relationships are easier to start than to maintain. Being in a couple means you always have to pay attention to your partner’s needs and wishes, as well as to the health of the relationship. When two people live together for a while, they get used to each other and they start to pay less attention to the other one. They focus more on their own activities and hobbies and less on what they could do together, as a couple.

This is a natural occurrence which solid couples know how to fight and overcome. It is very important that both of you find time for joint activities, even if you are busy with your own projects and duties. This is why anniversaries are important in a relationship. They are the perfect occasions for the two partners to celebrate and remember the happy moments they shared in the beginning of their relationship. Anniversaries are a good excuse of finding those common points that brought the two of you together in the first place.

Anniversaries are great opportunities to create new memories together, so don’t waste them by ignoring them. Many people, mostly men, complain they can’t remember dates of such anniversaries, so they automatically ignore them. This is true, we can’t remember everything, but you can always put a reminder in your calendar one day or one week before, so that you know there’s something to celebrate.

Such celebrations don’t have to be big. You may not have enough money to take your partner on a fantastic cruise on the Pacific Ocean. What you do matters less. The truly important thing is to mark the special day somehow, even if it’s only by bringing your partner a flower and inviting her to watch a romantic movie together in front of your very own TV. Spending money when you don’t have it isn’t the wisest choice ever. Nevertheless, the lack of money shouldn’t stop you from celebrating your important anniversaries. Even a simple kiss and a hug, together with the acknowledgement there’s an anniversary to celebrate can be enough to maintain your relationship.

Anniversaries are milestones in your relationship, so don’t waste them by ignoring them. Take your partner for a romantic walk in the park, renew your vows or do any other thing you both enjoy. This is how relationships are maintained.